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The former contestant of 'Perputhen' Alba Pollozhani spoke on 'Live from Tirana' about the trends of generation Z regarding love and marriage. During the interview, she was asked about her experience on Match and what she thinks about some of the former contestants.
What did you not like about Buçi and Vedat?
I don't even want to mention the first one by name because it's not like anything serious happened. Whereas with Vedat, I had something interesting in the beginning while it lasted, but it wasn't anything more. He still tries to catch my eye through social media, there are things I don't want to make public. But when I open the door for you and you are not able to enter the first time or the second time, when you go like a bee to flowers and take the words of others as a basis and do not make it possible to rely on each other as a real couple, then forget about the third one.
Asked why she thinks Generation Z has difficulty taking important steps towards marriage, Alba answers:
This is a very deep and special topic, there are many different reasons. I think one of these is the ease with which girls or boys find a new partner, whether prettier or richer. They do not take responsibility for their coexistence. I find it very strange how they live together for 1 or 2 years, sleep and share many things together, only to ask themselves at the end "should we continue or not?". It makes me think, what did they want to get out of this coexistence? They don't even agree to have children, one of the things that, at least in a couple, gives a common goal. A relationship, apart from love, should have trust, honesty and integrity, which is very hard to find today.
What do you think about the latest dating methods, specifically social media?
It depends on what you want, a serious relationship or pleasure. I think social platforms have become very functional for pleasure relationships and I don't understand why people bother to think about which method is more functional and which will find them true love. You have fate written on your forehead. The formula does not exist, I believe a lot in God and we don't have to kill our minds to find serious connections, it will come out by itself.
What would be the ideal man for you?
Albanian, businessman, Muslim. I don't want to sound like a materialist, but I believe that men and women have predetermined roles. As I will take care of the integrity of the family, as I will wait for him with all love after he returns from work and as I will take care of the children, I also expect him to reach a proper financial and social stage so that our children can have more advantages in life than us, to be more complete financially and spiritually. I don't have a minimum criteria, but the idea is that the main tasks must be fulfilled. He must know how to protect his wife, children and home. This does not at all mean that I would run away the first moment he had defeats; it is my duty to stand by him until he recovers and I would do so because such a man has proven himself to be strong, intelligent and able to dig success even in the mud he may have fallen. When he rises, we will rise together, for I will stand by him all the time; that is my role.
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